If you feel like your “picker” is broken (and you aren’t alone), we first want to direct you to Dating With Dignity’s Four signs of emotionally unavailable men so you can begin to spot them more easily.

Carrie eventually falls in love with Big, despite his fear of commitment.The reality is that for some people, fantasy will always be more appealing to them than reality. They are in love with the chase or the feeling of being chased.Emotionally unavailable people are the moths of the relationship kingdom.Then they start pulling back sexually or their style suddenly changes. When you first got together there weren’t enough hours in the day for you to spend together.Now she has dozens of excuses why she can’t see you as frequently. Unavailable typically actively seeks out relationships. They can be the most romantic and or considerate people in the universe, that is until there is the perceived or actual expectation of some form of commitment.